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One Year Anniversary of Live Holiness

Okay, so Father is in a blogging slump.  I’m not sure why.  I’m tempted to make all kinds of excuses: the busyness of the new academic year, my new assignment as high school chaplain while maintaining my other responsibilities, etc.  But the truth is, I’ve just been in a writing slump.  So, I apologize for my infrequent postings.

I can’t pass up the opportunity, however, to celebrate the first anniversary of Live Holiness (September 1).  I want to thank all of you, my faithful readers, for your prayers, feedback, and encouragement.  It’s such a joy to connect with so many good people, Catholic and non-Catholic alike.  You’ve enriched my life, and for that I’m grateful.  I do plan to continue blogging, but I ask for your patience as I get out of my slump and adjust to my new schedule.

Here in southeastern New England we are tracking Hurricane Earl.  I’m a weather geek, and actually get very excited at the prospect of a major storm roaring up the coast.  Although it looks like we’ll be spared the worst of Earl’s brunt, his approach reminds me of the first post I wrote for Live Holiness.  And so on the first anniversary of this blog, I share that first post with you here.

God bless you!  And know that I pray for each of you.

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The Gift of Leisure

I just enjoyed a wonderful 4th of July at my parent’s house with family and friends.  It was a typical Najim cookout: lots of people, lots of food, and lots of fun.  For all intents and purposes, this afternoon was the beginning of my summer reprieve.  I usually take some time in July to enjoy some rest and relaxation with friends.  Priests are never on vacation from priesthood; but, like most people, we do enjoy time away to recharge.

When the apostles returned from being sent out on mission by the Lord, Jesus said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while” (Mark 6:31).  Jesus knew that the apostles were weary from ministry, so He invited them to rest. There is a place for leisure in the Christian life.  Leisure is meant to rejuvenate us so that we can embrace the joys and challenges of life with renewed vigor.

I hope you get some time to rest this summer.  Maybe you’re not going away, but, if you’re able, treat yourself and your family to some extra days off.  In the United States, we tend to feel that we need to work all the time.  Don’t give into this pressure!  Take Jesus’ advice and “rest a while.”

I most likely will not be posting for the next couple of weeks.  I want to take this opportunity to thank all of you for reading Live Holiness.  I feel so blessed to have connected with so many amazing people–Catholic and non-Catholic, from literally all over the world.  I’m grateful for your feedback, your prayers, and your encouragement.  Please know that I do pray for each of you.

God bless you, and continue to enjoy the summer!

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A Pipe and a Prayer

“The world is charged with the grandeur of God” (Gerard Manley Hopkins).

I’m an extrovert by nature, but over the years I’ve learned to enjoy silence and solitude.  Truthfully, I think I’ve always had a contemplative-philosophical side to me.  I remember as a child laying in bed at night, driving myself crazy pondering what it means to live eternally.  As strange as it sounds, I also remember the first time I became conscious of my uniqueness. Again, I was just a child, maybe six or seven years old.  My family was getting into the car in the driveway, and out of the blue, like a self-conscious flash, I became deeply aware of myself.  The only way I could express it–and I spoke it audibly–was, “I feel like me.”  My sisters thought I was weird.

I wasn’t a very good high school student.  I failed algebra two years in a row (not two quarters, not two semesters, but two YEARS).  I simply couldn’t grasp it.  There weren’t many subjects for which I had a passion.  But I do remember surprising my junior English teacher when I suddenly raised my hand and correctly answered a question concerning the metaphysical poets.  I was just as surprised as she was, but something inside me enjoyed these poets who contemplated existence.  I went on to study theology and philosophy in college and continued to ponder the deeper questions of life and existence. Continue reading

Macey’s Story

Dear Friends,

On this Saturday morning, I wanted to share an inspirational story with you.  For the last few years, my dear friends, Scott and Kim King, have experienced every parents worst nightmare: their daughter Macey was diagnosed with cancer over three years ago. Macey is now ten and, thank God, is cancer free.  She has relapsed twice, but we are all hopeful that the Lord will keep her cancer free.

Her story is one of suffering and inspiration.  She is a heroic, faith-filled little girl, and Scott and Kim’s faith, although tested, has been nothing short of remarkable.  They have a beautiful family (Macey is the only girl, but she has four brothers who love her dearly!). (See picture below).

If you have a chance, please watch this 6-minute video narrated by Macey’s mom, Kim.  It really highlights the importance of faith when dealing with life’s difficulties.

Please continue to pray for Macey and the King family, and for all people–especially children–suffering from cancer.

Christ in Haiti

On Sunday, September 16, 2001, churches and other places of worship across the country were filled to overflowing.  I’ll never forget that day. Masses were standing room at St. Philip’s parish where I was serving.  As I looked out on the congregation, serious and sorrowful faces stared back at me.  Some had tears in their eyes.  After Mass parishioners stood outside, embraced, and spoke about the fear and uncertainty that we were all experiencing and how important it was that we all turn to the Lord during this time.

Two weeks later, Mass attendance was back to “normal.”  The initial shock of the terrorist attack on our country had begun to wear off.  But I’ll never forget the solidarity that we experienced during that time.  In this midst of immense suffering we were united, and a profound goodness flowed from the depths of peoples’ hearts.

Tragedy.  It has a way of uniting us.  It has a way of breaking down the walls that so often divide us.  It has a way of bringing out the very best in each and every human heart.

Enter Haiti.

Last weekend at the seminary where I live we hosted a retreat for men discerning the priesthood.  One young man who is from Haiti asked the haunting question: Do we believe that God did this?  I and the other priests and seminarians answered with an unequivocal “No!”  I reject Pat Robertson’s claim that this earthquake happened because the Haitian people made a pact with the devil to drive out the French.  There’s an interesting scene in the Gospel of Luke that I believe also refutes Robertson’s claim.  Jesus refers to a tragic event that occurred in Siloam.  He says, “…those eighteen people who were killed when the tower at Siloam fell on them—do you think they were more guilty than everyone else who lived in Jerusalem?”  Jesus’ answer?  “By no means!”  (Luke 13:4).  Our Lord makes clear that just because those people were killed does not mean it was because of something evil that they did.

I can’t pretend to answer why disasters happen.  I do know that, for some reason, God allows them to happen.  He does not will them to happen.  There’s a big difference, and it may be a mystery that we comprehend only when we are with Him for eternity.

I do know that tragedy unites us, that it brings out the best in us, that, even if just for a moment, it makes us drop our labels of liberal and conservative, believer and non-believer and reach out to those who are suffering.

I also believe that in a mystical way the Lord is suffering with and in the people of Haiti.  He’s with them.  How else can we explain what the Lord said to Saul: “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?” (Acts 9:4).  Saul was persecuting the Christians, and in persecuting them he was persecuting Christ who dwelled with them.  We can say the same concerning Haiti: Christ is suffering with and in the people of Haiti, and in reaching out to the people of Haiti we are also reaching out to Christ, for “Whatever you do for the least of my brothers and sisters, you do for me” (Matthew 25:40).

God is with them.  But He also wants to be with them and reach out to them through you and me!

Living a holy life requires that we reach out to those in need.  If you have not already given to help the people of Haiti, I strongly encourage you to do so.  Personally, I gave to Catholic Relief Services; but you can give to the charity of your choice.  If you simply cannot give, please pray for them.  But remember Mother Teresa’s words: we must give until it hurts.

P.S. I’m stealing an idea from a fellow blogger and I hope it challenges you: for every comment that is left on this post (not on facebook but here on my blog) I will donate an additional five dollars to Catholic Relief Services.  Don’t be afraid to challenge others to give as well!

Top 5 Live Holiness Posts

Happy New Year!  I just returned from a wonderful retreat, pilgrimage, and vacation all in one.  I spent about a week and a half in France with four of my brother priests.  We had a prayerful and wonderful time.  The highlight of the trip was spending four days in Ars, the small town where St. John Vianney lived and ministered for forty years.  I’m sure I’ll write more in the future about the spiritual lessons learned on this wonderful journey.

I thought for my first post this year I’d list the top five posts on my blog.  I do this as an introduction for some of my new readers and as a refresher for some who have been reading since the beginning.

Here they are:

A Simple but Powerful New Year’s Resolution

Are You Missing the Gift of the Present

Love Your Weakness

The Solution to Your Sorrow

How to Start Your Day in Holiness

And, as a bonus, here’s what I believe was my most heartfelt post: And a Little Child Led Me

The Solution to Your Sorrow

teresaIt’s impossible to be selfish and happy at the same time.  I know this from experience, for if I’m honest with myself, I find the days that I am most miserable are the days that I am too focused on myself: on my problems, my frustrations, my weaknesses.  I’m certain the same is true for you.  Think about the last time you felt sad or weighed down.  Maybe it was yesterday, or maybe it’s today.  If you take a few moments to reflect, you may find that you are focusing too much on yourself. Continue reading

Have You Noticed?

Have You Noticed?

Have you noticed the sunrise?

Have you noticed the sunset?

Have you noticed the clouds as they move in the sky?

Have you noticed the moon and the stars in the night?

Have you noticed the gentle breeze on your face?

Have you noticed the flowers in springtime?

Have you noticed the foliage in autumn?

Have you noticed the sound of the leaves in the wind?

Have you noticed the song of the birds in the morning?

Have you noticed the sound of the crickets in the evening?

mcpicHave you noticed the laughter of a child?

Have you noticed the tenderness of a mother’s love?

Have you noticed the strength of a father’s devotion?

Have you noticed the kindness shown to you today?

Have you noticed the pain in peoples’ eyes?

Have you noticed the plight of those in need?

Have you noticed your heart longs for more?

He’s always reaching out to us with His love

Always trying to get our attention

Drawing us closer to His heart

He’s not far removed

Nor a God who is cold and distant

He’s very near to us

But not always in ways that we expect

If we enter into silence

We will hear Him

If silence becomes habit

We will notice Him

Every day