Does Suffering Make You Bitter or Better?

Now that the academic year is over, I treated myself to a few extra days off this week.  On Saturday I drove five hours to Vestal, New York to visit my dear friends Scott and Kim King and their five children (pictured above).

I was amazed and overjoyed watching Scott and Kim with their children.  Their love for one another and their kids is so evident.  I told Kim she is my heroine.  She’s supermom: both days she was up for an early morning run, and her energy never waned until she put the kids to bed, all the while staying cheerful.  Scott is such a great father.  He was an able assistant in the kitchen—he makes an exceptionally good gin and tonic—, and he readily obeyed Kim’s orders to get little Sam out of her hair when he was becoming a bit too much to deal with.  Little Sam is very mischievous, but oh-so-adorable!

The Kings have not had it easy.  In December 2006, Macey, their second oldest and only daughter, developed Ewing’s Sarcoma, a rare form of cancer.  Twice she went into remission, and twice she relapsed.  She’s gone through countless rounds of chemotherapy, a number of surgeries, and just more pain than a little girl should have to experience.  Scott and Kim have endured many sleepless nights, hours on the road back and forth to the hospital in Syracuse, and many flights to and from Houston for Macey’s visits to MD Anderson Hospital. Read more »

A Pipe and a Prayer

“The world is charged with the grandeur of God” (Gerard Manley Hopkins).

I’m an extrovert by nature, but over the years I’ve learned to enjoy silence and solitude.  Truthfully, I think I’ve always had a contemplative-philosophical side to me.  I remember as a child laying in bed at night, driving myself crazy pondering what it means to live eternally.  As strange as it sounds, I also remember the first time I became conscious of my uniqueness. Again, I was just a child, maybe six or seven years old.  My family was getting into the car in the driveway, and out of the blue, like a self-conscious flash, I became deeply aware of myself.  The only way I could express it–and I spoke it audibly–was, “I feel like me.”  My sisters thought I was weird.

I wasn’t a very good high school student.  I failed algebra two years in a row (not two quarters, not two semesters, but two YEARS).  I simply couldn’t grasp it.  There weren’t many subjects for which I had a passion.  But I do remember surprising my junior English teacher when I suddenly raised my hand and correctly answered a question concerning the metaphysical poets.  I was just as surprised as she was, but something inside me enjoyed these poets who contemplated existence.  I went on to study theology and philosophy in college and continued to ponder the deeper questions of life and existence. Read more »

She Preached Without Words

“Preach the Gospel; if necessary, use words” (attributed to St. Francis of Assisi)

It was an unexpected, deeply moving, spiritual moment.  That’s how the Lord often works, isn’t it?  He surprises us, teaching us a lesson when we least expect it.

I was Master of Ceremonies for Bishop Tobin at a Confirmation last Thursday evening.  Being a Master of Ceremonies is typical for me, and, truthfully, I don’t expect to be spiritually moved during the ceremonies simply because I’m so focused on making sure everything goes smoothly.

The moment happened after the distribution of Holy Communion.  The congregation had been seated for a few minutes, and the deacon and I were at the altar consolidating the hosts into the ciboria so he could repose the Eucharist in the tabernacle.  Bishop Tobin was standing near the altar as well, and he gestured to me to look out at the congregation.  “Michael,” he said, “there are a couple of women coming forward to receive Communion.” Read more »

Golf and the Spiritual Life

Now that the warm weather has arrived, my golf clubs are back in the trunk of my car.  In this video blog (or “vlog” as they say), I share with you the spiritual lessons learned from my first round of golf of this new season. Forgive some of the camera motion; I didn’t use a tripod.  Enjoy, and please feel free to comment.

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How to Live Your Purpose

“You were made by God and for God, and until you understand that, life will never make sense” (Rick Warren) So, how are you doing with identifying your purpose?  If you haven’t read my last post about how to know your purpose, or if you just want to review it, go do it now before [...]

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